You cannot login to the vCO client using "vmware" - that account is for the Configuration Page only. In order to login to the vCO client, you must use an account from the LDAP/SSO you specified in the configuration for the Authentication section.
If this were the appliance using the built-in OpenLDAP for authentication, you could login with the default account vcoadmin and pw vcoadmin... however, from your logs it seems you are using Windows installed vCO. In this case, during your authentication setup, you had to specify a group for your vCO Administrators. When logging into the vCO Client, you need to use a credential that is a member of that group.
The SSH error you have appears to indicate that you are attempting to connect to a host that does not have SSH listening OR you are trying to connect with an account that does not have SSH access.
As for your other errors, not sure what the deal is there - corrupt install?? How much memory does your Windows server have? It must be 4GB or more...